Born in Santa Barbara, California on June 29, 1964, almond-eyed Kathleen Wilhoite grew up there and began singing in her church choir from the first grade. Two years later, she was performing on stage, as part of a back-up choir, with
The Carpenters, at the Santa Barbara County Bowl. All the while, she studied piano and songwriting and appeared in her high school's theater productions, such as "The House of Blue Leaves". Kathleen wrote and sang as one of the "Boogie Woogie Bugle Girls", a harmony group inspired by
The Andrews Sisters. She also became the youngest member of the Santa Barbara Songwriters Guild (age 16).
After high school, Kathleen elected to pursue an acting career, as opposed to music, and enrolled at the USC Drama School. Just a couple of months later, she landed her first movie role in
Private School (1983). Throughout the 1980s, she appeared in a number of film and TV projects as both leads and second leads where her brash sexuality and quirky, unconventional style was eagerly put on display. She appeared noticeably opposite
Charles Bronson in
Murphy's Law (1986),
Jane Fonda in
The Morning After (1986),
Robert De Niro in
Angel Heart (1987),
Amy Irving in
Crossing Delancey (1988),
Patrick Swayze in
Road House (1989), and
Debra Winger and
Nick Nolte in
Everybody Wins (1990), and
Susan Sarandon and Nolte in
Lorenzo's Oil (1992).
Kathleen appeared on many of the popular series of the 80's and '90s including "AfterMASH," "Family Ties," "The Jeffersons," "Cagney & Lacey" and "Fame," "Cop Rock," "Twin Peaks," "Quantum Leap," "Mad About You," "Ally McBeal" and "Family Law." While her acting career flourished, she continued to expand her music skills but was dealt with a few setbacks, including a contract with Mercury Records that fell through. After a brief sojourn to Texas to refocus intently on her music, Kathleen returned to the Hollywood rat race and eased back in as a "working actress".
A variety of offbeat roles in such movies as
Nurse Betty (2000) and
Pay It Forward (2000) has kept her name active on the credits list for over two decades. She landed a number of challenging roles, including a recurring roles on the law series
L.A. Law (1986) as intellectually disabled assistant Benny's
Adhipathi (1990) likewise girlfriend Rosalie, and the medical series
ER (1994) as troubled, substance abuser Chloe Lewis.
In the late 1980s, Kathleen was chosen by cartoonist
Cathy Guisewite to give vocal life to her creation
Cathy (1987) in a series of TV movies. Wilhoite later voiced another cartoon creation,
Sue Rose's
Pepper Ann (1997) in an animated TV series.
Into the millennium, Kathleen's on-camera featured work included the films
Nurse Betty (2000),
Pay It Forward (2000),
Quicksand (2003),
Perfect Opposites (2004),
Firecracker (2005),
Winged Creatures (2008),
Seeking Justice (2011),
Crazy Kind of Love (2013) and
The Ride (2018). In addition to a recurring role on
Gilmore Girls (2000), she had guest parts on "Touched by an Angel," "24," "Boomtown," "Will & Grace," "Charmed," "The Ghost Whisperer," "Boston Legal," "Criminal Minds," "Grey's Anatomy," "Battle Creek," "The OA" and "Yellowstone."
Married to record producer/drummer
David Harte and the mother of three children, Kathleen was signed by her husband to his "The Daves" record label (the other "Dave" is booking agent
David Surnow) and released two CDS - "Pitch Like a Girl" (1997) and "Shiva" (2000). In sync with both her edgy acting and music style, she wrote and performed an autobiographical one-woman show, "Stop Yellin'," directed by
Kathy Najimy, in which she sings her own music and performs monologues.