Alix of Hess-Darmstadt was born on June 8, 1872 in Darmstadt, Germany.
Her parents were the Grand Duke and Duchess of Darmstadt; her mother
was also the daughter of Queen Victoria. When Alix was still very
young, her sister Mary and then her mother died of diphtheria. Also,
her brother Frederick (1870-1873) died from a fall from a window in his
mother's room, complicated by hemophilia. She spent much of her time in
England, staying with her grandmother and various aunts, uncles and
cousins. When she was older she continued in the role of Landsmutter
(Mother of the land) for her father.
At the wedding of her sister Elizabeth (Ella) to their cousin Seril of
Russia, Alix met for the first time (and fell in love with) the
Tsarivitch Nicholas. Even thought she was in love with him she did not
want to marry him because she did not want to give up her Protestantism
to be Russian Orthodox. About 4 or 5 years after they first met Alix's
brother Ernest got married to their first cousin nicknamed Ducky. Since
both were cousins of Nicholas as well he went to the wedding to see
Alex. During the time that he was there he continually asked her to be
his wife, and thanks to their love as well as their cousin Kaiser
William II Alex finally consented to marry Nicholas.
Alix spent the first part of her engagement with her grandmother Queen
Victoria in England telling her everything that had transpired leading
to the engagement. The rest of the engagement did not go so smoothly
though. Several months after the engagement Nicholas's father became
ill at one of his palaces in Russia. Alix hearing this got there as
soon as she could, but shortly after she got there Nicholas became Tsar
Nicholas II. After this tragedy Alix did not want to wait to become a
member of the family. Shortly after the death of her future
father-in-law Alix became a member of the Russian Orthodox Faith taking
the name Alexandra Fyodorovna. She and Nicholas wanted to marry where
they were, but family told them that they should get married after the
funeral of his father in Moscow. Thus the people of Russia got their
first glimpse of their future Empress through death.
They were married on November 26, 1894, shortly after the death of his
father, and before 1901 had four daughters named Olga (1895-1918)
Tatiana (1897-1918), Maria (1899-1918) and Anastasia (1901-1918). In
1904 Alix gave birth to a son Alexis (known as Alexei) and sadly he had
hemophilia, which was passed on to her a sister and brother from their
mother Princess Alice and grandmother Queen Victoria.
In 1917 Nicholas was forced to abdicate the throne of Russia. The
people who would have accepted it if he had abdicated in favor of his
son, did not understand why he abdicated in favor of his brother. He
only did this because he knew that his son's chances of survival were
not good.
He and his family were then imprisoned in Siberia, and later moved to
Ekaterinburg, where on the night of July 17, 1918 the Russian royal
family was massacred. In the 1990s the burial sites were investigated,
although the bodies of the Tsarivitch Alexei and one of his sisters (it
is unclear which one) were missing. Using DNA from HRH Prince Phillip,
Duke of Edinburgh (Alix was his great-aunt) proved that four of the
bodies belonged to the Tsarina and three of her
daughters.